“ We dance for laughter, we dance for tears, we dance for madness, we dance for fears, we dance for hopes, we dance for screams, we are the dancers, we create the dreams.”
“ The woman who follows the crowd will usually go no further than the crowd. The woman who walks alone is likely to find herself in places no one has ever been before.”
“ Wisdom is not a product of schooling but of the lifelong attempt to acquire it.”
― Albert Einstein
What is it to be a woman?
When I was young, I wanted to grow up very quickly and become like my mom. Beautiful in her dresses with her heels and her red lipstick. I was brought up in a men's world. I didn't know what is to be feminine inside.
You can have the most abominable father on this planet, I can tell you that his weakness is having a daughter. He knew the horror and bestiality of war. He educated me in such a way that I never let myself get carried away. Succeed in detaching yourself from an unconditional love through the eyes of a child and doing it upside down. Which means I will hold on for the rest of my life and nothing will stop me. Like many women, I was conditioned to be pleasant, exemplary, helpful and submissive. I understood very early that throughout the history of Humanity, women have always been blamed, demonized and had to bear the responsibility for masculine impulses. Does anyone really question this? I wanted the truth so I set out to find it: what is freedom and love?
I'm twenty years old. I thought being curvy and looking like magazine models would make me a woman. No, I was a young girl learning how to be a woman. I was full of ambition, dreams and who always struggled to be. I experience my first love relationships and I understand that our patriarchal society plays a huge role. I want my freedom and my independence. Due to the separation of my stepfather and my mother who put us in misery. She did best with five children. This family pattern is what I don't want. I promised myself never to let a man do everything. The old model where the man has to go to work and the woman has to stay home is not for me. You are going to tell me that in Europe, mentalities are more evolved... I don't agree, there is still an inequality between men and women. There is a lack of education about what a human being is. Respect for each other. Kindness.
" Femininity is not just lipstick, stylish hairdos, and trendy clothes. It is the divine adornment of humanity. It finds expression in your qualities of your capacity to love, your spirituality, delicacy, radiance, sensitivity, creativity, charm, graciousness, gentleness, dignity, and quiet strength. "
- James E. Faust
Now I am thirty-one years old, I fought to create, to transcribe my own vision, my ideas and my values on what I think is best to give in this world. I find that we are not moving quickly... We are regressing because where is the feminine energy? My ex-partner raped me because he wanted to dominate me. Why should I have to obey someone? No man submits me! I have embraced gender equity otherwise we will be in an endless war between men and women. We come from different planets. We can never fully understand each other. We coexist and complement each other by being independent. In my opinion, our crisis is spiritual and of conscience. We have an imbalance between male and female energy. The Universe is a womb, Her spirit is feminine first. I leave you an idea of my values and you will understand very quickly that I'm the worst nightmare for misogynists or sexists people. Mouhahahaha! I'm not against them because for sure, they have problem with their mothers or women in their past. But don't forget that we can't excuse everything when you have conscience and you choose to continue. A world in serenity is possible. The question now is: What are we waiting for to come together if we all want to live in harmony?
To be a woman is when my lotus flower will be open for Humanity. It's something that can be seen and felt. It's the face of love and wisdom. I'm the bloodline of spiritual warriors and this is my story. Yes, I AM.
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